It's Almost About That Time

For me to pack up all my belongings and hit the trail. It seems like it was just yesterday when I was so stressed out and felt like I had nothing or no one to turn to. It seemed like I was loosing everyone that meant the most to me. Even the one that I didn't even get the chance to really know, but I still care for them deeply and will always love them.

I am so excited and so nervous at the same time! I truly think this is something that I truly need to do become the woman my mother always told me she knew I would be. So many people tell me that they get this vibe that I'm gonna be great at something one day?? I'm not sure what greatness will be, but I'd be happy with just knowing that I touched someone else's life to where they felt uplifted by knowing my trials tribulations hurt pains sorrow and happiness. Just for them to realize they are not alone and we all go through things. But the most important thing is that we learn stay strong and have faith in God. Because if we all do that then in the end we will definitely be STILL STANDING.

If I could be remembered as anything it would be that I was a great daughter, niece, sister, aunt, friend, employee and lover. That's all that matters to me. I could care less about fame fortune and all the glitz and glamour. I just want to be remembered as a down to earth intelligent trustworthy loyal always have your back woman. Because that's all I know to be, it's how I was raised.

I am very excited that in this transition I asked my cuzzo to join me after he graduates instead of him heading straight to NYC. I felt I needed to give him the opportunity that no one gave me when I graduated. Give him the opportunity to see if leaving Ohio is what he really wanted to do? I'm very proud of him and I will have his back no matter what he decides to do, but at least this way he's with fam so my auntie don't have to worry about him.

So as of today I have officially 42 days and I am outta here!!! Ive been hunting my butt off for apts, condos, and houses and I believe I've finally found one that me and my cuzzo both agrees on!! Its hot let me tell you and its in the perfect area surrounded by all the good stuff and great jobs too!! I don't wanna give it away now, but I will be posting moving pics on a later blog. So there will be a before, during and after blog!!lol

We are still trying to decide if we wanna have a huge party or just go to an amusement park with all our fam and friends? We need to work out some kinks but we will have it together soon.

Wow!! the countdown is truly on and its going by very quickly!! Im looking forward to spending as much time with my family and friends as I possibly can before I leave! Let's just hope they can make time for me because it will be awhile before I come back to Buckeye City!!!lol And I mean awhile!!! So holla at me while ya can!

Smooches!!!!!

Every Girl's Dream......

So it seems that love is definitely in the air???? Just today I was asked to be a part of two weddings that will take place within the next year!!! OMG!! I was too shocked to say the least when i recieved both phone calls?!? I also will be atteniding a wedding on sat for a friend of mine as well!! My godmom always teases me about " always being the bridesmaide and never the bride!!!" I just tell her when God sees fit for me to settle down and married he will place my husband in my life. Who knows?? He could already be in my life;o)

Oh well here are 3 of my favorite wedding video tributes in honor of my chicas who are crossing over to be married women!!! I love all three of you and congrats!!!!





Yup I picked the remix.....and?!?




How could I not include this one???




I tried to find the vieo but they wouldnt release the code to put on my page to view;op I love that video bcause it showed Beyonce as the " Video Girl". Look how far shes come since 1999!?!?!

FRIENDSHIP IS A GOLDEN CHAIN

Friendship is a golden chain the links are friends so dear & like a rare & precious jewel its treasured more each year. He who forgives and offense seeks love but he who repeats a matter alienates his friend.

Today write a letter to someone, a letter of appreciation, greeting, congratulations, get well wishes or cheer. The sum of your words is truth & of your righteous judgments are eternal.



I was emailed this from a friends from high school and I absolutely fell in love with it! It's so true and it's a great idea to do to bring some happiness to someones day and just to show your appreciation for that person or people in your life that you can truly call a friend. I hope you all enjoy it and try it out.

Stop........Think About It

Love makes us patient, understanding, and kind. We judge with our hearts not with our mind for as soon as love enters the hearts opened door the faults we once saw aren't there anymore.

FLASHBACK..................

As I'm cleaning and going through some old things....I came across some old letters, cards, and pictures. It reminded me of some good times and happy memories. I absolutely love this song!!! Two of my favorite entertainers on one hot song??? Can't beat that!! Not to mention, the beginning of the video is one of my all time favorite songs from Usher that he should have made a complete video for instead of a teaser!!!;o( I still love him though!! Enjoy!!




Side Note: What memories does this song bring back to you?? Im waiting to her from yall!!!!

I'm Loving This Song!!!

I absolutely LOVE this song and video!! K.C. looks amazing!!!! And what she is singing about is def the truth!!! Some people wait a lifetime to find this....and some don't. Enjoy!!!

My 2009 Has Kicked Off With A Bang!!!

Hello blogworld!!! I hope all had a wonderful, safe, fun New Year? I know some partied long and hard, some went to church, and some may have just stayed at the crib and chilled.

I myself went to a friends party and had a blast!!!! It was almost like havin a high school reunion, cuz EVERYBODY in there was people I went to school with and hadn't seen for awhile. So it was great to catch up and bring in a new year.

It was a very casual down to earth cool mellow crowd. Everyone was def getting their grown and sexy swag on!!lol The music was bumping, drinks was flowin, laughter, dancing, picture taking, and food!!! OMG!!! The food was great!!! Bbq ribs, meatballs, greens, mac & cheese, green beans, the works!!! And it was all free!!!!

Then the countdown began!!! Everyone had their hats, lights, noise makers as we watched the ball drop to bring in a new year!!! Now throughout the night the dj kept asking people their resolutions and goals for 2009. He said whatever the majority was he would play a song representing the most voted one.

So after hitting one and everyone screaming, hugging, crying, just bein overwhelmed with the start of a new year, the dj says" Okay we have a tie for the most common resolution/goal for the new year! Here's the 1st joint." Everyone stops and waits.......then blastin out the speaker came........." I get money...I I get money..." so you know it went bananas!!!!lol then we were jammin to that and the dj says," okay here's the other song...this ones is strictly 4 the ladies!" Then of course the ladies anthem came blarin out..." All my single ladies...all my single ladies!!"

Needless to say it went down!!!! So much fun, no drama, no stress, no fights, just love, respect, happiness, and the eagerness of a great new year!!

I'm very much looking forward to this new year. There are a lot of great things that will be goin on in my life and those around me. Like today is my dads last day of work after 43 years at the post office and serving 8 years in the army. I give my papi mad props for working as hard as he does. Becasue of him, I've learned the value of hard work. I've been working since I was 12, by choice, so I def know what work is. And I def am honored to have had that example in my life.

I also have a lot of personal projects that I'm working as mentioned in an earlier blog about some charities and organizations I want to startup. I have always had these plans in my heart and mind, but must admit I had kind of put them on the backburner. But that's all over time to get it poppin as my bestfriend would say( I see ya Mr.Jwork). Looking at how far his company has come has inspired me more than ever!! Which reminds me, they just launched their hot website and yall need to check it out!! They are the best newest clothing line in the midwest in my opinion!! You wanna be fresh to death check them out at www.jworklimited.com. They got some hot ish so be on the lookout cuz Jwork is on the rise!!!

I just feel so energized and excited about this year!! I can only imagine what God has planned for me?? I have let go of so much pain, anger, stress, fears, and friends. No negativity in 2009. Only happiness and success for me! And if ya can't bring that to the table then ya need to excuse yaself!!

I've started off to a great year! I've lost the weight I wanted(yea baby!!) goal was 15-20 pds and I lost 23!! I said I wasn't bringing bad friendships into 09 so I'm proud to say that I'm 2 people lighter!! Yea had to lay those friendships to rest. And believe me there were NO tears at that funeral!!lol I know I have more services to attend, what about yall???lol

My next big goal is to finally get situated for this move I'm going to be making. I have until march 1st to make up my mind what I'm going to do? I know I'm leaving for sure beacuse I need to be away from all the stress, hurt, and drama that was around me in 2008. I need to surround myself with positive, fun, loving, intelligent, funny, goal oriented, supportive people. I need people around me that will shine with me & not block my shine!! I told ya if ya blockin, you will get left behind!!! You're either with me or against me!!

So my moving choice was Orlando, FL, but because of my profession I can pretty much go anywhere. And I have been receiving offers from all over the place!!!lol So I ask to my friends here in blogworld.......Where should I go?? Tell me somethings about where yall live or where your from?? I must admit I am a very very warm/hot climate type of person, but I'm pretty much open to anywhere.

Well that's enough of that!!!lol Stop by and let me know what yall did for new years, what's your resolutions/goals for 2009, are yall puttin any friendships to rest? What was the deciding factor for you living where you live, or staying where you were born??

Hope to hear from yall soon!!! Have a great weekend!!! Smooches