Saturday, April 25, 2009

Brandon........This Is For You!!!!

So awhile back me and my cuzzo Brandon went to the Janet Jackson concert in Detroit. It was off the hook to say the least!!! One of he best times i'vehad in years!!!! And one of the best dates too!!!lol Brandon is not only my cuzzo but he is my partner in crime and I love him to death!!!

So anyways while at the concert there was a short intermission my Ms. Jackson explaining that the show was suppose to have 30 to 40 more mins of performances but due to " Decency " laws in Detroit for lewd conduct and performances they had to cut half the show?!?!?

So today I was scoping through a few websites as im catching up on my blogging and comments and came across this video! OMG!!!! If this is just an example of what really was gonna go down then I see why Detroit placed that law!!! Take a look for yourself!!!!!

Bran we was soooo close that I know that if she could have performed this section that would have been you in that harness getting kissed, felt, and grind on!!!! Next time we see her make sure there are no " Decency " laws in place so you can have your dream come true!!!!lol

Beautiful U Are

So I was talking to a friend of mine and she is really going through it right now. A lot is happening in her life right now and she feeling like she's just at rock bottom. She's feeling sad about losing her boyfriend and having family issues. Which I can definitely relate to. I mean who out there can't relate to losing a girlfriend/boyfriend and having family issues??

She said something to me that really rocked me to my core!! She said, " Randa he left me for a stick thin video model looking chick!?!?" WHAT?! Come again?? She said the person she had been with for the past 3yrs up and left her a for a girl that you would see in a video?? Now by all means I have no problem with girls who look "that way"(whatever classifies as your typical video model??) which I feel is very stereo typical because beauty comes in all shapes, sizes, and colors.

But for her to say it the way she did, just rocked me to my core!! It hurt me and I'm not even the one in the relationship!! I just know the kind of woman she is and the kind of heart she has. I've know her since elementary school and we've been cool every since!! She's kind, funny, adventurous, determined, dedicated dependable, and smart as hell!!! I mean she's an attorney and she has her own real estate company!!!!

I've never personally had anyone tell me that they didn't wanna be with me anymore because of my weight. I was very luck in that dept because I was with someone who was all about image due to the nature of his business. But he always stood by me in that department even when everyone else had shit to fuckin say. Til this day I respect him for that and appreciate it as wll. I can honestly say that I have battled with my weight over the years and it is a very hard struggle. But at the same time I'm comfortable with me and I know that when I feel like I'm ready to really lose more weight and get back into tip top shape I will. But on my own terms and at my own discretion!!!

I am for sure not the same size 7 I was all through high school and up to my sophomore year of college. Hell I'm not even the damn size 9 10 I was my last two years of college!!lol But we all go through things that cause us to gain weight. No matter if its the pressures of school, work, family stress, or even relationships with our partners. Everyone goes through it. So what gives someone else the right to tell someone they love that they don't wanna be with them no more because of their weight??? What kind of bullshit is that!?!?!?

This is something that I hear so often that's is almost just as funny as it is hurtful to me. I mean half the time the person making the comment ain't so damn hot themselves!! Some of y'all know y'all know somebody like that??lol But seriously this is a burden that can sound so small and minute, but at the same time it causes some people to have mental, emotional, and unhealthy thoughts about themselves and even about life. I always tell my best friend, " You need to watch what you say and how you say it." I say this because some people can be too up front and honest and its just effin mean as hell!!! Even though they may not mean it to come off that way it does.

Words truly do have a way of really getting down to someones core and messing them up. Especially if that person is not stable enough to handle what is being dished out to them. Even though sometimes that person may put on that " Tough as nails " role, it can really affect them. Next time you or anyone else says something that's just hardcore, think about that. Words truly do hurt sometimes, " So watch what you say, and how you say it."

Over the last few months I have just been really kind of keeping to myself and just observing everything and everyone around me. It's been very amusing to say the least. When I think of all the things that has happened since 2008 up til now it really makes me realize that I truly have a blessed life and at this point I'm living for me and nobody else!! Like the header to my blog says, " We can't please everyone."

Now for everyone who has been following my blog you all know that I was on a hardcore mission to loose 15-20 pounds,and I did it. But do I wanna lose more? Yea I do. And who do I wanna do it for? ME I'm not about impressing or outdoing anyone out here. Because no matter how small, how toned, or how in shape I'm in, there will always be someone else who wants it more. I want it to be healthy and happy. I mean yea the bathing suits and short skirts/dress are good motivation too, but those are just accessories if you will. I want to be healthy and happy so I can live a long full life and be able to run with my kids and grandchildren one day.

Alot of girls get the misconception that we have to be a size 00 to be sexy?!?! Not knocking those who are that small, but never have I or will I ever be that small! I wouldn't want to because I'd look sick as hell!!lol I'm 5'6", can you imagine me that small??? Beauty comes in all sizes, shapes, and curves. Remember ladies we are not arm candy or accessories in relationships. Yes its great to wanna look good for your man, I'm not saying it's wrong or tat you souldn't do it. But if you are happy with some curves and meat on your bones then be happy with it! But make sure your healthy with it too. And to all those men and women who put negative thoughts into peoples mind about their weight and working out.....make sure you looking right cha damn self befoe you pass judgement on to someone else!!!!!

In the words of my girl Tyra Banks, If you don't like my not so flat stomach, my not so toned legs, my huge boobs, thick hips, and just all around curvaceous body........"YOU CAN KISS MY FAT ASS!!!!!!!!"

We have to be happy within ourselves, before we can turly make someone else happy.

Friday, April 24, 2009

Halle Berry!!!!!

I love Halle Berry and I thought this was sooooo freakin cute!!! I may be late but 1: I never heard this song before? 2: I didn't see this interview. And 3: I love Ellen too!!!


Do You Remember Her????????

If you haven't guessed is Sara Stokes formally of the original Making The Band. I was just looking at some old videos and came across this one. Im not sure how old it is because i've never seen it or heard it before. I always though she was a talented woman, but her over bearing husband cost her a HUGE opportunity with BadBoy. that's my personsal opinion. I actually liked Da Band and I felt they were all very talented, but they asses couldnt stop fighting!!!! Hmmmmmm......doesn't that sound familiar??? (In Diddy's voice) " We gonna have the making the band curse up in this bitch!!!" lol

I Love This Effin Song........

The remix is sick to me because I'm a fan of both Drake and Nikki Minaj!!!

Thursday, April 23, 2009

Leaving For........

More details later so stay tuned!!!

I Think This Is Funny........

But I loooooove the song!!

Young Money - Every Girl (ORIGINAL) from Moe Arora on Vimeo.

MTV's Making the Band Finale 'Bittersweet' for Dawn Richard

Thursday night's "Making the Band 4: The Final Chapter" live finale will be "bittersweet" for Danity Kane member Dawn Richard.

"I'm sad that it's coming to a close, but happy that all the negativity can end and the positivity of our name and what we've accomplished can live on," Richard said.

Since last season's finale, "Making the Band" executive producer and Danity Kane founder Sean (Diddy) Combs has slowly disassembled the five-piece girl group, leaving only Richard to continue on, either as a solo artist or the only original member of a new Danity Kane.

"At this point, it's uncertain how things will play out," Richard said. "But I know that I'll continue to write and record music. The future is bright and broad."

The finale, airing Thursday night at 9 on MTV, will feature all of the former members of Danity Kane, a performance by Day26 and some words from Combs.

"I would work with any of those girls again," said Richard. "I got in the audition line called 'Making the Band' because I wanted to be in a band. If I didn't, I would have done 'American Idol.'"

Tuesday, April 21, 2009

So.......What's Your Dream?

My overall dream one day is to own and operate a hospital in which I would dedicate to my late grandmother. It would have a cancer center also due to the disease has been a main cause of death to most of my family members. I also hope to have a few different organizations and charities that focus on health, self-esteem, drug, alcohol, all kinds of abuse, education, arts, and other subject matters that tend to stress and bother our youth and young adults. After I'm moved and settled I will be going back to school to get a BSN in Psych and continue my Nursing to become a Nurse Pratictioner. So I ask all of you....what is your dream(s)? And what are you doing to obtain that dream?? I'm waiting to hear from you all.

Monday, April 20, 2009

Tyler Perry Alleged Stalker Threatens Murder

Posted Apr 20th 2009 9:55AM by TMZ Staff

TMZ has obtained the restraining order against the woman accused of stalking Tyler Perry -- and the document is nothing short of shocking .... the alleged stalker saying Tyler is a candidate for murder.

As we first reported, Dawne Wilson was arrested for aggravated stalking Wednesday outside Perry's production studios in Atlanta ... a place where she's been an unwelcome visitor many times before.

The restraining order, obtained by TMZ, claims in March, 2008, Dawne Wilson began contacting Perry by computer "in a menacing manner," causing Perry to fear "apprehension of immediately receiving a violent injury."

According to the docs, in April, 2008, Wilson sent another e-mail saying "You need to check your heart condition because it is filled with murder....your love has been but costly and deadly....Murder I say is the verdict."

Wilson rambled on, "Why do you insist on assisting the devil?"

Wilson was taken into custody after showing up at Perry's recording studio last Wednesday, in violation of the restraining order.

Saturday, April 18, 2009

Just Some Music Im Feeling Right Now.....

Fat Joe (Feat. Akon) - One

I have always loved Joey Crack and this song just is sooo on point to me!! It also mad me think of an article I read about him talking about the love, respect, and admiration he has for his wife.

Brutha - She's Gone (Its To Late)

This group I have loved since their show debut on BET. They are all real brothers who all can sing their asses off! They are not recognized enough for their talents.

Kellie Pickler - Best Days of Your Life

This song is just a great example of, " You never miss a good thing until it's gone." I love types of music and I was first introduced to this song when Kellie sung it on American Idol a few weeks back. I love her and Taylor Swift!! The video is hilarious!!!!

Friday, April 17, 2009

One Tree Hill's Skills Pleads Innocent in Fake ID Scam

It looks like some mad skillz have landed Skills in big trouble.

Antwon Tanner, One Tree Hill's Antwon "Skills" Taylor, has pleaded not guilty in a New York federal court to participating in a Social Security scam, a spokesman for the U.S. Attorney's Office confirms.

The 34-year-old actor, whose credits include Coach Carter with Samuel L. Jackson and that catchy "Da Da Da" Volkswagen commercial, was busted in a sting operation and charged with selling 16 Social Security numbers and three counterfeit cards to a middleman between December 2005 and last July.

Tanner surrendered yesterday and entered his plea in Brooklyn Federal Court. He was released after posting $250,000 bail.

If convicted, he faces up to five years in prison.

The California native allegedly supplied the phony digits and cards to an unidentified contact who in turn sold them to an undercover agent with the Immigration and Customs Enforcement agency (ICE).

According to a two-count indictment, Tanner used made-up Social Security numbers as well as those swiped from the living and the dead, and he passed them along without ever having a face-to-face meeting with the dealer. All the cards were allegedly sent through the mail.

The feds say Tanner banked thousands of dollars over a two-and-a-half-year period.

Neither Tanner nor his lawyer answered reporters' questions upon leaving yesterday's hearing, and the CW has declined to address his arrest or future on One Tree Hill.

Jwork Ltd. Website Release Party @ BOMA

All I can say about the party is............


Shouts out to my bestfriend & my inspiration Jermaine. Im sooo effin proud of you! But I always knew it would happen;o) Also shout out to Pooh, D Hun, Mary, Brandi, Akira, Portia, Ashlie, Candice, L Boogie, Nik, Trav, Starr, 6s, Fly U, The 3rd, and last but not least my partner in crime Brandon!!! I had a blast and I can't wait to do it again!! Jwork keep making it happen and it's just the beginning of even greater things for you all!!! Love and respect ALWAYS to the whole Jwork Ltd. Fam!!!!!!

Friday, April 3, 2009

Jwork LTD.

I introduce to you the hottest clothing line out of Cols, OH and soon to be the world!!!! Jwork LTD is the premiere and leading clothing line out of the Midwest! They are proud to announce the unveiling and long awaited release of their website: If you are in the state of Ohio or even if your not Jwork cordially invites you to the hottest party of the year!!!

Expect all the biggest and hottest males and females to be in the place to be to celebrate this long awaited and very deserving celebration! Ladies wear your hottest fashion and sexiest stilettos and fellas come out dressed to impress in your fly gear(preferably Jwork...plug And please leave all the negative energy and hateration at the crib. We are trying to celebrate and have a good time!! Thanks in advance!;o)


Hope to see you all there to rock it out with the Jwork LTD. crew! And make sure to check out the website after the release on April 11, 2009!

Shouts out to Jermaine, D Hun,Pooh, Mary, Brandi, Akira, Trav, and the rest of the Jwork LTD. Crew!!! Keep makin it happen!!!

"Transformers: Revenge Of The Fallen"

I only have three words to say: Can't Effin Wait!!!!!!!

Wednesday, April 1, 2009

Jordana Brewster

Jordana Brewster (born April 26, 1980)

Early life
Brewster was born in Panama City, Panama, the daughter of Maria João (née Leal de Sousa), a former Sports Illustrated swimsuit model from Brazil, and Alden Brewster, an American investment banker. Her paternal grandfather, Kingman Brewster, Jr., was an educator, diplomat, and president of Yale University. Brewster left Panama when she was 2 months old, relocating to London where she would spend 6 years before moving to her mother's native Rio de Janeiro, Brazil. She left Brazil at the age of 10, settling in Manhattan, New York, where she would live for the next 15 years. Brewster studied at the Convent of the Sacred Heart in New York and graduated from the Professional Children's School in New York. She then enrolled at Yale University in New Haven, Connecticut, graduating in 2003.

Brewster made her debut in daytime soap operas, with a one-time appearance on All My Children as Anita Santos, followed by a recurring role on As the World Turns as Nikki Munson from 1995 to 1998. Her first film role was in Robert Rodriguez's 1998 film, The Faculty.

One of Brewster's most notable film roles to date is Mia Toretto from The Fast and the Furious (2001), which she will reprise in Fast and Furious (2009). Subsequent film work has included roles in Win a Date with Tad Hamilton! (scenes deleted), as criminal mastermind Lucy Diamond in D.E.B.S., and as Chrissie in The Texas Chainsaw Massacre: The Beginning.

Her television work includes the NBC miniseries The 60's, as Sarah Weinstock, a college student and radical activist, and a pilot for a followup to the film Mr & Mrs. Smith, playing the role depicted in the film by Angelina Jolie. She is also appearing on Chuck, as the title character's former girlfriend in a multi-episode stint during the second season.

In 2002, Stuff magazine named her the 96th hottest woman in their "102 Sexiest Women in the World". In 2005 Maxim magazine named her the 54th sexiest woman in the world in their annual Hot 100. In 2006 Maxim ranked her at #59 on their Hot 100. She placed 8th on's "100 Hottest Women" list in 2007 and 22nd in 2008.

Personal life
Brewster dated Mark Wahlberg from 2000 to June 2001 and dated Derek Jeter in 2001. She has also dated Mark McGrath from 2003 to 2004. She has a cat named after her movie character in The Faculty, as well as 2 Labradors. A "yellow" one named Ella and a "white" one named Hendry.

After she dated him for a year, Brewster became engaged to Andrew Form (who worked as a producer on The Texas Chainsaw Massacre: The Beginning) on November 4, 2006. She married Form in a private ceremony in the Bahamas, May 6, 2007.



When I was little,

I used to believe in the concept of one best friend,

And then I started to become a woman.

And then I found out that if you allow your heart to open up,

God would show you the best in many friends.

One friend is needed when you're going through things with your man.

Another friend is needed when you're going through things with your mom.

Another will sit beside you in the bleachers as you delight in your children and their activities.

Another when you want to shop, share, heal, hurt, joke, or just be.

One friend will say, 'Let's cry together,'

Another, 'Let's fight together,'

Another, 'Let's walk away together.'

One friend will meet your spiritual need,

Another your shoe fetish,

Another your love for movies,

Another will be with you in your season of confusion,

Another will be your clarifier,

Another the wind beneath your wings.

But whatever their assignment in your life,

On whatever the occasion,

On whatever the day,

Or wherever you need them to meet you with their gym shoes on and hair pulled back,

Or to hold you back from making a complete fool of yourself .

Those are your best friends.

It may all be wrapped up in one woman, but for many, it's wrapped up in several.

One from 7th grade,

One from high school,

Several from the college years,

A couple from old jobs,

On some days your mother,

On some days your neighbor,

On others, your sisters,

And on some days, your daughters.

I absolutely love this!! One of my friends in my circle whose very close to me sent this and it hit home cuz its soooo true!! f you have girls like this pass it on!! This goes out to all my blogger chicas!!! Hugs & Kisses!!

Britney Spears Dances Her Way Through Candie’s Shoot

Britney Spears is about to make her debut as the new spokesmodel for Candie’s, following in the footsteps of other pop stars like Fergie and Hilary Duff.

Britney sports many looks in the footage while dancing, smiling and eating what appears to be a deli meat of some sort.
“My favorite set-up was against the gigantic wall of pink cotton candy,” Britney said in a statement, adding, “I had so much fun shooting the Candie’s for Kohl’s campaign. I got to wear the cutest clothes and they are perfect for summer!”

The spring 2009 campaign, shot by Mark Liddell, has Britney posing in front of a variety of backdrops, including her favorite wall of pink cotton candy.

In one scene, Britney sports a plaid dress, ankle boots and sunglasses, and later she’s rocking a leopard crop-top, shorts, glasses and tan high-heels. Then, in front of the cotton-candy backdrop, Brit wears a yellow bikini with lots of necklaces and black heels.

In the video, Britney — who looks healthy and fit — dances to a number of songs, including “D.A.N.C.E.” by Justice, “Just Dance” by Lady Gaga (we detect a theme) and Estelle’s “American Boy.”